"Can/should a Christian who is a virgin marry someone who is not a virgin?"
"Can/should a Christian who is a virgin marry someone who is not a virgin?" The ideal situation for Christian marriage is, of course, when both parties are virgins, having understood that marriage is the only place in God’s eyes for sexual relations. But we don’t live in an ideal world. Many times, a person raised in a godly home and saved from childhood wishes to marry someone who was saved in h is or her 20s or 30s and who brings to the Christian marriage a past lived according to worldly standards. While God puts our sins as far from us as the east is from the west when we come to Him in repentance and faith in Christ (Psalm 103:12), people have long memories and forgetting someone’s past may not be easy. The inability to forgive and forget the past mistakes of one of the marriage partners will definitely influence the marriage negatively. Before entering a marriage with someone with a sexual past, it’s crucial to understand that salvation and forgiveness of sin are given...